Love practically
I feel people are ready to be in love when they are
focused on cleaning up their act
because they are (almost) done satisfying their basic
material desire
Finding love happens best when two
people are emotionally ready to be selfless when the
relationship demands it.
Finding love is all about
the ability to communicate. Communication in this case
is not just listening and talking but using the pleasures and
pains of past relationships as the aliment for understanding
the other person.
Your past hurts put you in
a better position to be able to relate to the feelings of betrayal,
loss of trust and loss of hope.
Its a process that makes you become more
cautious not to inflict the same damage to the present relationship.